Discussing End-of-Life With a Family Member

Medical professionals and counselors who deal with families facing end-of-life issues offer a few suggestions to the rest of us on “how to start a conversation” when we have a very sick loved one. They say the first thing to consider is having a conversation in one’s kitchen is a whole lot easier than having it in the hospital. It may also encourage your family to start the conversation if they learn that studies find families who have talked about it beforehand express less feelings of guilt after the person passes away. Moreover, they say they had an easier time grieving and were less likely to experience depression.

The type of questions to ask to get a conversation started include “what does the person value most about their life?” Other topics of discussion could be to find out what the person understands about their illness; what matters most to them at the end of life; how they want to handle medical decisions; and what their fears and physical needs are.

As a family member, you need to remember to practice active listening. It is important to leave your own views out of the discussion and try to understand what the person is feeling. Find out if they want to spend their last days at home; and who do they wish to be surrounded by as they face death. This is also a good time to encourage them to express their wishes regarding burial.

Ask if the person has an advanced directive, which is a legally binding document that gives instructions for healthcare if they are no longer able to make or communicate those decisions themselves. This can include their wishes around discontinuing treatment and medications; and saves the family from having to make difficult decisions.

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Source: aarp.org/caregiving/basics/info-2020/end-of-life-talk-care-talk.html

Information Sources for Caregiving Assistance

Many of us are faced with decisions regarding increasing care needs for a parent, spouse or other loved ones. This can be a stressful time with the worry that goes along with mom or dad’s declining health and the best way to deal with their needs.

For expert advice, you can start by utilizing online platforms such as the U.S. Administration on Aging’s Eldercare Locator that is a public, free service designed to help older adults and their families connect with available resources and services. The site uses your zip code to find local support, care, and information related to elderly needs.

Another online resource for caregiving for those with Alzheimer’s disease or other forms of dementia is the Alzheimer’s Association or the Alzheimers.gov site. Here, families can find trusted information regarding resources, support groups, educational material and caregiving options.

A person’s healthcare provider, social worker or counselor is also a good resource for assessing a loved one’s needs, and to get help in creating and updating care plans. Family caregivers must remember that while being a caregiver can be a labor of love, it can be stressful. For those with ties to a church, temple, or other place of worship, they may feel comfortable getting help for themselves and/or starting the process of dealing with grief.  

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For those with Alzheimer’s and other dementia-related diseases, we provide experienced, all-inclusive care in our distinct Reflections Neighborhood. Contact us to learn more about MorningStar’s outstanding senior living in Houston.

MorningStar is guided by a culture rooted in our mission of honoring God, valuing seniors, and investing in our team, which allows us to deliver services with warmth, sincerity and depth of purpose. We have built a reputation for creating homes filled with an atmosphere of love and community. Please contact us for more information about the finest senior living Houston offers.

Source: marthastewart.com/stimulate-your-brain-as-your-age-8753447?utm_source=allhealthy.com

Determining the Cause of Shoulder Blade Pain Can Be Difficult

The shoulder blade, referred to as the scapulae, consists of triangular bones on the back of the shoulders; and are attached to the top of the arm at the shoulder joint and the clavicle (at the acromioclavicular joint). As the area is surrounded by muscles, tendons and ligaments, doctors say determining the cause of shoulder blade pain can be difficult. 

The Medical News Today website explains shoulder blade pain can be caused by a number of conditions including a heart attack. Other causes may be sleeping in an uncomfortable position, strain from lifting a heavy object, and physical trauma. 

Examples of bone or joint problems are pain caused by a fall or accident that results in a fracture. Other bone and joint issues include degenerative conditions like arthritis, bursitis or frozen shoulders. One type of arthritis called ankylosing spondylitis primarily affects the spine and can cause pain and inflammation in the surrounding area including the shoulders. 

Shoulder pain that arises beneath the bone that forms the “roof” of the shoulder (the acromion) is often referred to as shoulder impingement. Experts say the cause is often unknown and in about 50% of people, the pain gets better after around 6 months. Treatment includes pain medication, cooling the area and physical therapy. 

Muscle and tendon problems causing shoulder pain include the rotator cuff, muscle strain and overuse of the area. The rotator cuff is a set of muscles that helps the arm and shoulder move and injuries are common including tears to one of the cuff tendons. Treatment includes taking over-the-counter nonsteroidal anti-inflammatory drugs or pain medications to minimize swelling and discomfort, applying ice packs and physical therapy. In some cases your doctor may recommend surgery. 

Consult your healthcare provider about lingering shoulder blade pain. Also, remember shoulder pain is associated with a heart attack, so anyone experiencing shoulder pain along with shortness of breath, or other signs of a heart attack, should seek immediate medical attention. 

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Source: medicalnewstoday.com/articles/319774

Arthritis and Healthy Lifestyle Habits

Many people assume arthritis comes with aging, but experts say that while joint pain is common in older adults, arthritis is not a normal part of aging. The CDC explains arthritis is a group of more than 100 conditions causing inflammation and swelling in the joints or nearby tissues with symptoms such as pain and stiffness. Osteoarthritis is the most common type of arthritis and mostly occurs in older adults (about 70% are 55 years and older). Other common types of arthritis are rheumatoid arthritis and gout. 

While there is not a cure for arthritis, there are treatments, medications and therapies. In addition, studies find healthy lifestyle habits can help manage symptoms of osteoarthritis, rheumatoid arthritis, and gout as well as lessen your risk for even getting it. For example, the CDC reports 40% of people with arthritis can decrease pain and improve function by being physically active. 

Osteoarthritis is the breakdown of the cartilage of the joints causing bones to rub against one another resulting in pain and difficulty moving the joint.  Experts say millions of cases could be prevented by avoiding excessive weight gain. Exercising regularly and doing resistance training is another way to avoid injury to the joints. 

Rheumatoid arthritis (RA) is a chronic condition causing inflammation and swelling in joints. It can misshape, misalign and damage joints; and if it is in one knee or hand, it is typically in the other hand or knee. Recommendations to reduce your risk for RA include avoiding tobacco. Gingivitis, or gum inflammation, is linked to several health conditions including RA; and prevention includes improving oral health with good hygiene and dental visits.  

Gout is another common form of arthritis and occurs when crystals of uric acid are deposited in one or more joints. People with gout experience pain, swelling and redness in the affected joints. Experts say eating a healthy diet, limiting alcohol, and staying well hydrated are good steps to reduce your risk. If you are overweight, lose weight and if possible avoid diuretics (discuss all medication changes with your doctor). Studies show that regardless of what type of arthritis you have, early diagnosis and treatment can make a big difference in your future joint health. 

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Source: health.harvard.edu/staying-healthy/is-it-possible-to-prevent-arthritis