Selecting an Assisted Living Community for Your Parent

If you have started searching for assisted living for a parent, you know it can be overwhelming.  You are probably looking for a place that fits their budget, care needs, and lifestyle preferences.  Moreover, you know it is not a decision to make lightly as you will not want to move mom or dad again after just a few months.  That is why the experts suggest that if the circumstances allow you should take your time.  

The Internet has several checklists and suggestions on what to look for when searching for communities offering assisted living including questions to ask when talking to the staff.  One thing everyone agrees on is that it is a good idea to take a tour of the community.  

Questions you will want to ask include suite sizes and configurations, pricing information and availability.  If you plan to have both of your parents move in, ask if they can share a suite.  Also, if applicable, find out if the community supports Companion Living (where two people of the same sex share a suite).  

You will also want to learn more about the care services your loved one will receive. How is the level of care determined?  Will they have access to care 24/7?  How close is the community to medical care facilities and how are medical emergencies handled? Are nurses available and if so, how often?  What is the staff-to-resident ratio and do the staff receive special training?  Do any of the caregivers have CPR training?  

In addition, ask about programs and activities available to residents.  If possible, get a calendar of events to review later.  Also, ask about the dining experience.  Are meals offered all day?  Is the dining room full service?  Can a resident have meals delivered to their suite?  If your parents have diet restrictions find out if they can be accommodated. 

Location is another thing to consider as you will want a community that is convenient for family and friends to visit.  Be sure to ask if you will be allowed to visit at any time or if there is a set schedule when residents can receive visitors.    

At MorningStar, we look forward to answering all your questions.  Our dedicated team works hard to give our residents a lifestyle of comfort, wellness and community second to none.  Our beautiful home offers independent and assisted living in Pasadena, CA with a wide range of luxury amenities, wellness programs and activities. In addition, our Reflections Neighborhood provides memory care care to those with memory impairment.

MorningStar is guided by a culture rooted in our mission of honoring God, valuing seniors, and investing in our team, which allows us to deliver services with warmth, sincerity, and depth of purpose. We have built a reputation for creating homes filled with an atmosphere of love and community. Please contact us for more information about the finest independent living Pasadena, CA has to offer.

Driving Safety for Older Adults

Are you aware that several states have changed their rules for older drivers? For instance Texas requires drivers aged 79 to 84 years to renew their licenses every eight years and those aged 85 and older are limited to a two-year renewal. It also requires drivers aged 79 and older to renew their license in person. In addition, they must take a vision test and report on any medical conditions that may affect their driving ability. If you are a senior, check with your state to see about any recent changes. 

If you are wondering if your parents should still be driving, experts say age is not an absolute but varies from individual to individual, and guidelines include commonsense and wellness factors. Obviously, things like Alzheimer’s and other memory impairments affect judgement and driving ability so consult with their physician to see if the keys need to be taken away. They add seniors limited by the complications of diabetes should also be assessed by their physician for their ability to drive.  

Another reason a senior should not be driving is due to their medications. Certain commonly prescribed drugs are known to cause drowsiness and/or slow down a person’s reaction time. If you have concerns, again check with their doctor or use the CDC’s medicine risk fact sheet. Other problems like dizziness and shortness of breath also interfere with safe driving.

Mom or dad’s physical condition may mean they should be a passenger and not a driver. A Place for Mom, explains, “Driving takes control and dexterity. Inactivity can cause muscle deterioration, which can affect a person’s agility, coordination and strength.” This can also include a loss in hearing and vision. 

Warning signs an elderly adult should not be driving are accidents or having close calls. Even getting ticketed for unsafe driving maneuvers as well as getting lost on familiar routes means mom or dad should become a passenger.  

At MorningStar at River Oaks, we provide luxury senior living in Houston’s Upper Kirby District. Along with spacious, private suites for independent or assisted living; residents enjoy a wide range of amenities including scheduled transportation to safely get them to important appointments. For individuals with Alzheimer’s and other dementia-related diseases, our Reflections Neighborhood provides compassionate memory care. Contact us or visit our website to set up a tour of our beautiful community. 

MorningStar is guided by a culture rooted in our mission of honoring God, valuing seniors, and investing in our team, which allows us to deliver services with warmth, sincerity and depth of purpose. We have built a reputation for creating homes filled with an atmosphere of love and community. Please contact us for more information about the finest senior living Houston offers.